the what ifs....
this morning on my drive to work i witnessed a jeep flip over and bang into the side of the freeway. no other cars were hit but i couldn't help but think..."what if i were right next to that car!?"...i was about 4 car lengths away from it when it happened and it was bizarre watching it in silence, and almost in slow-motion. i can only hope that the driver survived.
on monday, i spilled coffee (i hardly ever drink coffee!) inches away from the new (spensif and fancy-schmancy) purse that exbf bought for me, and i was like OMG, "what if it ruined my purse!"....
anyway i don't believe in "what ifs"...because you simply can't dwell on something that didn't happen and should only be concerend with the relevant, what actually happened. i sometimes rethink the whole "everything happens for a reason" and dare to reverse that to, instead, we create logic to justify what has happened. everything happens with reasons!